St. Elmo's Fire wrote: ^Seriously! Fucked up depraved things go on in my head, and I'm sure do in 99% of other guys' heads too, I'm just amazed that some, or in fact quite a few, are brazen enough to follow up on it!
You have to follow up on it though (as long as it's just kinky and not harmful), fair enough if your partner is so weirded out by it that they choose not to participate, but you'd probably find that most are more accommodating than you'd imagine. Just don't drop it on the first night or anything, and don't drop it like that crab-walk guy did "DO IT NOW" lol. Finesse it. Who know what great sex you could be missing out on if you don't at least put it out there.