Dreakon wrote:St. Elmo's Fire wrote:It's your own life, you have a right to be selfish about that, and it's not always "pathetic and wussy", sometimes it really WON'T get better.
It is being selfish because you are taking your own life at the expense of others. People who love and care about you may live many months after you die in misery and woe and still never forget you, yet you kill yourself without caring the slightest. It sounds selfish to me.
You're right, it is selfish, but like I said it's your OWN damn life. If there are people around who are gonna notice though, then that's a pretty damn good reason NOT to do it. Like I implied before.
Dreakon wrote:It is pathetic and wussy since your taking the easy way out.
Rather then facing lifes problems head on you are ending your problems and unfortunatly ending your life too.
It wouldn't be THAT unfortunate in my case, YES I am putting myself down slightly needlessly, but it's almost true.
"Life's problems" is not a reason to do it, so we almost agree. I'm talking more serious shit. Let's say someone had, say, cancer, or AIDS. Why the fuck "face the problems" and die in such a painful undignified fashion where you're losing a fight? Do It Yourself. DIY. I'm sure the "others who cared" would understand too. If a friend of mine did it, I certainly would understand.
Maybe I am pathetic and wussy, hey I know I am actually, I'm saying that others who consider it might not be though. I'm not afraid of what I am either, and IF I was to be dead I wouldn't exactly care what others thought anyway! ;)
Dreakon wrote:
You have no friends? Make some. You lost your job? Try and get another. Lost your house? Bunk with friends or family til' you can pick yourself up again. These things happen
Sure they do, these are trivial things so therefore are no reason to fuck up. I said that before too, remember? "Keep holding on and after a few days most things will seem trivial"
Dreakon wrote: if your only answer is killing yourself you obviously don't think very much.
Sorry, but all I can say to that is "fuck you". Firstly, it's not my ONLY answer at all, I'd say try damn well EVERYTHING to make a situation better and if those don't work, wait, give it time.
Secondly, I DO think about these things, all the time, YOU'RE the one who's not thought it through if you think it's simply a case a black is bad, white is right and the whole world is made of those colours.
Dreakon wrote:If you don't try and make your life better then naturally your going to be a depressed person with no friends.
I'm fine right now. I will make it better, and will try every avenue to improvement. Everyone will be different, but speaking for me I don't try and get depressed, it's just a downwards spiral, one that I'm familiar with. Some things may be hard or impossible to change, but hey I'll try.
Dreakon wrote: My advice to you St. Elmo's Fire is never become a psychiatrist.
No worries! ;)
Dreakon wrote:My advice to the person who started this thread is never kill yourself. Some problems may seem bad and endless but usually there is a way around it.
Seconded.